For a generation that can swipe through hundreds of profiles in a single sitting, the sheer volume of 'matches' creates a subtle but pervasive illusion: that someone better, smarter, or more attractive is always just one scroll away. (Representational image/Shutterstock)
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News1814-02-2026, 08:30

Valentine's Day in the Algorithm Era: The Paradox of Choice and Romantic Fasting

  • Dating apps transform Valentine's Day into a psychological hurdle for digital natives, creating a 'stressful retail experience' for finding love.
  • The 'Paradox of Choice' leads to decision paralysis, with an overabundance of options causing users to constantly seek 'someone better'.
  • This 'maximiser' mindset results in perpetual 'search mode', diminishing satisfaction and increasing the 'opportunity cost' of unpicked profiles.
  • The 'loneliness of the infinite swipe' causes dating app burnout, emotional depletion, and a lack of intimacy despite numerous connections.
  • A new trend, 'Romantic Fasting', sees Gen Z and Millennials pausing dating apps during Valentine's to prioritize mental health and '6-7 dating' over endless searching.

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