People-pleasing often looks like kindness, but over time it can lead to emotional exhaustion and a loss of self-connection, therapists say (Image: Pexels)
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Moneycontrol05-01-2026, 11:38

People-Pleasing's Hidden Cost: Therapist Reveals Emotional Burnout & Healing

  • People-pleasing, often disguised as niceness, leads to exhaustion, resentment, and emotional burnout.
  • Archana Singhal, a therapist, explains it's a survival response from childhood, fearing conflict or rejection.
  • It causes disconnection from self, prioritizing others' needs, and excessive apologies, believing they are responsible for others' emotions.
  • Healing involves rebuilding self-worth, valuing oneself independently of external approval, and embracing self-compassion.
  • Tips include noticing patterns, exploring fears, setting gentle boundaries, accepting discomfort, and practicing clear communication.

Why It Matters: People-pleasing, a survival response, leads to burnout; heal by valuing self and setting boundaries.

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